So, it's been several weeks, but I've decided to post these gold forum posts that I received pertaining to the Anne controversy. They are posted in their completeness. They are here reposted in temporal order. A peek into the world of gold plus.
Posted By: admin in Gold+ Discussion Forum
Subject: a chat with a friend of anne's about her...
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in thailand doing taebo with bow ties: I just saw that Anna left.. what happ'd? If someone could tell me the story briefly.
Greg: do you know anne?
in thailand doing taebo with bow ties: Not personally.. I remember enjoying her posts and now see that she's gone.
Stef: sadly, she decided to leave
in thailand doing taebo with bow ties: Without an explanation?
Galt7125: You could message her and ask her. I'm sure she'll respond.
Stef: she disliked it when someone said that one of her arguments smacked of fundamentalism
Galt7125: Can you provide a quote to that effect?
in thailand doing taebo with bow ties: Can you link me to that?
Stef: it's probably better to discuss it with her
Stef: I wasn't there, so I wouldn't want to over interpret.
Greg: she has all the documentation anyway
Stef: yes, she saved a copy of the chat log, I'm sure she can send it to you if you're interested
in thailand doing taebo with bow ties: I don't really have a desire to talk to her.. Only to know why she left. If that makes sense.
Stef: sure
Stef: well nobody was abusing her, and she certainly wasn't abusing anybody else
Stef: if that helps
in thailand doing taebo with bow ties: That is the most important thing.
in thailand doing taebo with bow ties: Thank you.
Stef: you're more than welcome -- how are you these days?
Galt7125: I believe Anne would disagree with your assessment.
Stef: well unfortunately I'll never know...
Stef: but I certainly do wish her all the best
Galt7125: You could ask her. She did say she was likely to respond.
Stef: No, if she's decided to leave, she's decided to leave
Stef: I'm too busy to go chasing after people
Stef: I'm sure she knows what is best for her
Galt7125: But...the first line of her conclusion indicates that she felt abused
Stef: but again, I'll never know, because she's not returning
Stef: and certainly the chat log itself did not indicate any form of verbal abuse
Stef: name-calling, swearing etc.
Galt7125: ";but you are deliberately evading that for a reason. It's like how fundamentalists like to hear part of an evolution argument then mischaracterize it and attack the straw man. Never curious about evolution at all.";
Galt7125: I would deem that name-calling
Stef: yes, I did read it
Stef: that is not name-calling at all
Stef: i.e.
Stef: "bastard asshole bitch" etc
Galt7125: I see
Stef: saying that an aspect of her approach was like a 'fundamenalist' is not abusive
Stef: it may be incorrect, but it is not abusive
Stef: I use exactly that argument against minarchists in a variety of podcasts and books
Galt7125: Alright
Stef: I do think that the characterization 'deliberately evading' is a stretch
Stef: insofar as it is not established to the satisfaction of both parties
Stef: but that is pretty mild stuff
Stef: if that makes any sense
Greg: essentially, logical or debating errors
Greg: right?
Stef: well, if I am accused of being evasive, I ask for evidence
Stef: because of course it could always be the case that I am being evasive, and don't know it, because it is unconscious or something like that
Stef: but if I just leave, I'll never know for sure
Greg: good point.
Galt7125: But if you ask, and the other person does not explain how you're being evasive. What then?
Stef: well in this case, we'll never know
Galt7125: Excuse me?
Stef: but in general, if someone accuses me of being evasive, and has no actual evidence, then he must withdraw the accusation of course
Stef: if he doesn't withdraw the accusation, then I would simply discount having a sensible debate with that person
Galt7125: Alright
Galt7125: I believe I can pull a previous instance where Nathan accused Anne of being evasive, and did not explain the accusation when Anne asked. Should he have to withdraw the accusation? Since he didn't, was not Anne in the right?
Stef: well I would say that Nate would be in the wrong in that situation
Greg: but, at this point, the accusation isn't the problem - it's whether or not he can provide evidence, right?
Stef: and if Annie had found Nate to be an unjust or a rational debater, then of course she is perfectly free to refrain from debating with him…
after this, Galt said that he was satisfied with the interaction and had no more question...
Posted By: rich in Gold+ Discussion Forum
Subject: Re: a chat with a friend of anne's about her...
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Looked up Galt, and it is Mixy:
http://freedomainradio.com/board/members/Galt7125.aspx Posted By: EdgeOfForever in Gold+ Discussion Forum
Subject: Re: A recent chat transcript and reaction
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If I had to make a guess....I have to say I think she's been looking for an excuse to leave. If one person says one thing on a chat, even if it really is unwarranted,and then all the sudden decides to leave, I think its fairly safe to say she has wanted to leave. I have been insulted or put off at times by some members here, doesnt mean I throw out the whole conversation. If she really fealt it was wrong of nathan to make that remark...why not respond with "Nathan I'm not sure I agree with your statement, could you possibly step me through how you came to that conclusion?" Why would she storm off if she didnt feel it was true at least in some way?
Posted By: chewgarus in Gold+ Discussion Forum
Subject: Re: A recent chat transcript and reaction
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EdgeOfForever:
If I had to make a guess....I have to say I think she's been looking for an excuse to leave. If one person says one thing on a chat, even if it really is unwarranted,and then all the sudden decides to leave, I think its fairly safe to say she has wanted to leave. I have been insulted or put off at times by some members here, doesnt mean I throw out the whole conversation. If she really fealt it was wrong of nathan to make that remark...why not respond with "Nathan I'm not sure I agree with your statement, could you possibly step me through how you came to that conclusion?" Why would she storm off if she didnt feel it was true at least in some way?
Those were exactly my feelings when I read what happened.
Though my experience of her was limited, my impression is that she was often snippy when she disagreed with someone. Her tone on several occasions in posts or chats told me this. Am I alone in this or did anyone else notice this as a problem?
It's also not unprecedented for Nathan, when he dislikes someone's attitude or otherwise, to say what's on his mind - even if not fully reasoned in presentation. I doubt it was Nate's fault, even if he was in the wrong for what he said. It appears she was ready for an incident to get righteous and storm off.
Posted By: Nathan in Gold+ Discussion Forum
Subject: Re: a chat with a friend of anne's about her...
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I believe I can pull a previous instance where Nathan accused Anne of being evasive, and did not explain the accusation when Anne asked. Should he have to withdraw the accusation? Since he didn't, was not Anne in the right?
Ha! No he can't, I've never accused Anne of anything until this particular instance. If she were to ask me to step her through to my conclusion, I'm pretty confident I could. Unfortunately she "harumpheddoorslammed" which is clear enough indication to me that I was correct.
Posted By: EdgeOfForever in Gold+ Discussion Forum
Subject: Re: A recent chat transcript and reaction
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If it was me, and Nathan said something similar, while I might be offended, I'd at least ask for his reasons. What part of that conversation, or any other conversation gave her the indication that she couldn't simply ask why Nate said what he said. Nate has never struck me as a mean person, I would think most people would be pretty open to asking him for clarification. Well, at least the ones who are really trying to live with integrity.