ab-so-lute-ly fascinating podcast. I feel like a reporter after a very exciting football match and you want to ask the players and coach all sorts of things about the match: what about that situation? how did you feel when this happened? How did you come out of the defense here? How are you feeling now?
Stef is absolutely brilliant, he is significantly more sophisticated in his intellectual lines of defense than I gave him credit for. he creates the most amazing, complex stories that even are consistent and have so much truth in them and through his questioning you are led along, having to accept every step he talks about until you end up somewhere that feels eerie and untrue but that you seemed logically foced to accept. This is such an intellectually and emotionally confused and vulnerable state to be in.
The only weapons against this type of sophistry are to keep hammering on your original points and ask for
these to be answered, to keep confronting him with the simple evidence, and
not get caught up in his story and see where he does a big hocus pocus trick and skips steps while you are too busy following him in his story to notice.
Stef (also in this conversation) says that you should trust your gut, your instinct and feelings in a conversation - how are you
feeling during it, e.g. about the other, what is his vibe? - and it would be so interesting to do a 'post-match-interview'
with the guy in this podcast who is very intelligent, sincere and standup and who struggled, sometimes failed but often succeeded, to stick up for his points, sometimes getting led along too far missing skipped steps but even then always returning to the simple empirical evidence (his experience with his friend and his prior thoughts about it) and to the points he wants to make. How does
he feel about Stef after the experience of this conversation with him? WHat did his gut tell him?
I may write a 'technical' analysis of the 'match' later cuz i find it so interesting to observe, a case-study in debating: with logic, emotional manipulation, storytelling, sophistry, dominance, defense... it has it all...