Molyneux's Philosophy of (un)Forgiveness

nelle · Number of posts: 485 Registration date: 2009-02-09

You know what? This also means that I stopped stonewalling certain people in my life that FDR had convinced me I should defoo (after feeling myself what it felt like). I'm so glad that I stopped that horrible behavior. I am in the process of healing broken relationships that I almost permanently destroyed. Here's hoping that others will wake up (it has felt like a waking up process) and do the same!

NonEntity · Number of posts: 2598 Registration date: 2007-11-08

nelle wrote:

You know what? This also means that I stopped stonewalling certain people in my life that FDR had convinced me I should defoo (after feeling myself what it felt like). I'm so glad that I stopped that horrible behavior. I am in the process of healing broken relationships that I almost permanently destroyed. Here's hoping that others will wake up (it has felt like a waking up process) and do the same!

I don't know if this totally applies, but I think it's relevant. Here is my latest writing at Strike-the-Root regarding my own hypocrisy and other stuff of interest (or not).

- NonE

nelle · Number of posts: 485 Registration date: 2009-02-09

I bid us all to be the love that we would like to have manifested. sunny

ExyPhylo · Number of posts: 1180 Registration date: 2007-12-12

NonEntity wrote:

I don't know if this totally applies, but I think it's relevant. Here is my latest writing at Strike-the-Root regarding my own hypocrisy and other stuff of interest (or not).

- NonE

NonE: I enjoyed the article, it was humble, conversational and overall an enjoyable read! Thank you for sharing!

NonEntity · Number of posts: 2598 Registration date: 2007-11-08

Thanks, Exy. As to the humble part, hey, I've gotta screw up ONCE in a while! ;-)

- NonE

nelle · Number of posts: 485 Registration date: 2009-02-09

I can say that deFDRing is not easy. There are the FDR friends who will probably never forgive me. Then there are the family members who I defoo'd who I now want to try to seek forgiveness from. There are a lot of fences to try to mend, and that is not an easy road.

nelle · Number of posts: 485 Registration date: 2009-02-09

I have learned so much by reading this site over the past couple of days. I only wish that I would have read all of this before meeting up with SM and FDR. Great info. Thank you.

NonEntity · Number of posts: 2598 Registration date: 2007-11-08

It's all a process, nelle. Welcome and enjoy the journey. Maybe without Stef you would not have found out things which you now find of value. Who knows?

There is some kind of Zen thinking which sorta says that (and I will paraphrase this REALLY badly) the pain is not inherent in the thing, but is only a result of our unwillingness to accept it.

- NonE

nelle · Number of posts: 485 Registration date: 2009-02-09

Thanks NonEntity.

Patience · Number of posts: 368 Location: England Registration date: 2008-08-26

nelle wrote:

I can say that deFDRing is not easy. There are the FDR friends who will probably never forgive me. Then there are the family members who I defoo'd who I now want to try to seek forgiveness from. There are a lot of fences to try to mend, and that is not an easy road.

Welcome back to the world. I hope your friend will follow you back one day.

lordmetroid · Number of posts: 212 Registration date: 2007-08-18

Now when you are posting here, you are probably banned from his site. So deFDRing shouldn't be a problem.

Dylboz · Number of posts: 2014 Registration date: 2007-09-20

NonEntity wrote:

I always wondered how your ear got so badly bent out of shape!

- NonE

That wasn't the only thing that got bent!

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jawol(48) · Number of posts: 93 Registration date: 2008-11-16

nelle wrote:

I can say that deFDRing is not easy. There are the FDR friends who will probably never forgive me. Then there are the family members who I defoo'd who I now want to try to seek forgiveness from. There are a lot of fences to try to mend, and that is not an easy road.

Hey Nelle,
If there are FDR friends that will 'never forgive you' then they probably were never really your friends. As for the family members, if they truly would like you back in their lives you probably all ready know that it is OK to go back to them. Perhaps if you are fearful to approach them you could meet up with them on neutral ground or at a place where have you shared happy memories, just to help break the ice.
Either way you choose to go I wish you the best of luck. Seeing how you are 'alienated' from all these people suggest if you haven't all ready done so, make contact the ET way, just 'phone home Nelle, just 'phone home.
Still worried about FDR? what is the worst that could happen? Steff not talking to you!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!.

NonEntity · Number of posts: 2598 Registration date: 2007-11-08

Nelle,

You might be surprised how far a simple, "I'm sorry" will go.

- NonE

nelle · Number of posts: 485 Registration date: 2009-02-09

Thank you all so much. I really appreciate such support right now. It is nice to find a place where I don't have to be nervous about every word that comes out of my mouth. I am sorry for so much. I hope that will help with the healing process.