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PostSubject: Living in the moment, desire without attachment, etc.   Wed Jul 22, 2009 9:20 pm

Valuable stuff? Or hippie shit? Discuss.

The "living in the now" stuff seems interesting to me, although the way this idea is conveyed sometimes makes it seem as though it is simply having a high time preference, which I sometimes find stupid. But I'm open to other meanings of the idea.

Desire without attachment sounds intuitively appealing, but I don't fully understand what exactly is meant by each word; what is the desire and what is the attachment? Where would this fall within, for instance, praxeology?
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PostSubject: Re: Living in the moment, desire without attachment, etc.   Thu Jul 23, 2009 2:20 pm

When people conversationally talk about "living in the now," it's exactly as you say: High time preference, hedonism, etc. And maybe some people prefer that, but it's a banal subject.

But if you talk to a Zen Buddhist, for instance, about what it means to be "living in the now," or to have a focused presence of mind, not on the past or future, but on the current moment, that's something else entirely.
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PostSubject: Re: Living in the moment, desire without attachment, etc.   Thu Jul 23, 2009 5:04 pm

(addendum: looking at this I see that I may be over reacting and that I'm probably not addressing the main question. that in mind, it may be more about me than anything else. so if it offends you, ignore it and go on to the next post. but I'm leaving it here cuz it's worth saying... i think.)

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When people conversationally talk about "living in the now," it's exactly as you say: High time preference, hedonism, etc. And maybe some people prefer that, but it's a banal subject.

But if you talk to a Zen Buddhist, for instance, about what it means to be "living in the now," or to have a focused presence of mind, not on the past or future, but on the current moment, that's something else entirely.


I think you think too highly of yourself. Or too lowly of hippies. Or something. What you say is of course true in some instances, but I'd bet that a lot of Zen Buddhists don't get it any better than a lot of hippies.

Hippie. Another box to put a wide variety of people in. They're probably all scum, just like all blacks, all jews, all honkeys and so on... (don't forget the rag heads)

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PostSubject: Re: Living in the moment, desire without attachment, etc.   Thu Jul 23, 2009 5:29 pm

I have found, personally, that Eckhart Tolle's "A New Earth" is an excellent book for helping understand the concepts of living in the now and letting go of attachments. Near the end of the book he tends to wander somewhat into some politicalesque kinds of ideas which are more personal statements (it seems to me), but if you don't let your opinions on those things taint the value of the rest of the book, it is a superb piece of writing on the subject.

But then, it is also true that "when the student is ready the teacher will appear," and so it may be that Tolle's message may not make any sense to you. I know that I understand things differently at different times in my being. You might wanna give it a try however.

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PostSubject: Re: Living in the moment, desire without attachment, etc.   Fri Jul 24, 2009 12:36 am

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I think you think too highly of yourself. Or too lowly of hippies. Or something.


I plead the latter. I think you've read too much into my comment. What I meant was that when most people (who aren't hippies, I don't think) talk about living in the 'now' they're really referring to some kind of "seize the moment" philosophy, which is not the same as the Zen / Eckhart Tolle approach.
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PostSubject: Re: Living in the moment, desire without attachment, etc.   Fri Jul 24, 2009 6:29 pm

Bigus Dickus wrote:
Valuable stuff? Or hippie shit? Discuss.


I would give my left nut to fully grok the value of this.

That said, I don't know that discussion will illuminate too well. It tends to be a thing that seems difficult to put into language. But my hands are up for 'valuable stuff'. cheers

Understanding the nature of 'attachment' by the mind is a huge topic. But go for it. sunny

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PostSubject: Re: Living in the moment, desire without attachment, etc.   Fri Jul 24, 2009 7:04 pm

Bigus Dickus wrote:
Valuable stuff? Or hippie shit? Discuss.

possibly valuable stuff. but it disappears (becomes nonsensical, contradictory, etc.) when analyzing and explicating it. Thus it has to be something other than a thesis somehow, and it has to fit with, make sense for a person somehow. But how it does (if it does) is inexplicable.

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PostSubject: Re: Living in the moment, desire without attachment, etc.   Sat Jul 25, 2009 3:30 am

Conrad wrote:
Bigus Dickus wrote:
Valuable stuff? Or hippie shit? Discuss.

possibly valuable stuff. but it disappears (becomes nonsensical, contradictory, etc.) when analyzing and explicating it. Thus it has to be something other than a thesis somehow, and it has to fit with, make sense for a person somehow. But how it does (if it does) is inexplicable.


I agree. That is why I pointed to Tolle's book as he doesn't discuss it so much as paint a picture which allows the reader to begin to partially experience the thing. Alan Watts did the same with his talks back in the 60s. And he did so with great humor, which makes it even easier, and fun too, to begin to grasp the sense of it.

One thing to think about is this idea. If you are thinking about how something will be, might be, or was, you are not experiencing your present reality (the birds singing, the feel of the gravel under your feet, the smell of the trees and your sweat, etc.) and so the only moment in which you can actually experience life has been wasted or passed over for the sake of imagining what actual experience might be. So you have discarded actual experience of life for imagining such experience. It's a poor trade. By staying in the now, you experience life, and then those experiences become a part of your reality and stay with you always. You become richer for having actually experienced life rather than just imagining it.

Or something.

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PostSubject: Re: Living in the moment, desire without attachment, etc.   Sat Jul 25, 2009 3:44 am

It's kinda like when you're having an orgasm. You are totally in the now - all else is excluded, and if you were thinking of something else you would not be able to be having the orgasm. Which would you prefer, to have the orgasm or to think about having an orgasm?

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